Social Networking Vs. Relationship

Here we learn Communicate

Here we learn to Contradict

Here we learn to Debate

Here we practice Co-ordinate

Here on this earth, everywhere, at all the times….in all the ways…..

We learn to LIVE!

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While we spend a long time with people around us, we don’t recognize that we are bound with the Society. But spending a very short moment gives an unbearable and uneasy experience of loneliness. In fact, we are trapped into this labyrinth of varied relationships and become fond of it.

Do you know why a big part of the world’s population comes under the category of Stressed People? The most remarkable common factor among these people is their failure in communication or in relationship. Now, I believe that when we are alone, spending time without any communication we become introvert. Mostly, a lonely person with lot of thoughts starts talking himself or herself. Just like the famous characters of Shakespearean plays-Hamlet and King Lear. These are ultimate models of self communicating human beings. Their loneliness was not only physical, but also psychological. We call this situation as Alienation.

The alienation of a person may be from friends, parents, society, a particular place (e.g. native place) or from the material and spiritual world. I experienced that this alienation or loneliness makes us to concentrate and think about the things that we don’t notice usually. The power of observation and analysis of incidents shows its best output ever experienced.

Here, I would like to mention my own this kind of experience at a remote place. Of course, it was not actually a remote place. I was among the hundreds of folks who had gathered to seek the pleasure of the beauty of nature, loving personalities, pleasure of entertainment and the pleasure of peace. We have been accepting the sentence-“Man is a Social Animal”. This animal is fond of society and crowd.

Today, we have plenty of options to communicate debate and express our thoughts. These channels are social networking, blogging, messaging and chatting with a friend who is sitting at a distant place. Some people find their peace in chatting with the people whom they’re not familiar face to face or have not met even once throughout their lives. Therefore, we rarely get time for self interaction and observe the incidents around us.

The question arises that how a person can seek pleasure in chatting or talking to an unknown person? How would you believe that the other person is able understand your condition? There can be another aspect that these blind-chatting folks are afraid of knowing that somebody knows their mind. This type of communication can’t be counted as a relationship but just NETworking where what maters I just connections technically. It doesn’t matter whether you are emotionally involved in that “connection”.

I think, the Social Networking can be the primary step to build a relationship, and the “Connectors” may use it to check its sustainability and feasibility.

When you pen a letter, put life in it!

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When you pen a letter, put life in it!

 

I just came across an article convincing me that we are losing a great pleasure of our life due to over use of technology.  Yes, I am talking about our letter writing skill that we’re unable to practice now days. Really, writing letters makes direct and instant contact with the reader’s mind with you.  Although, you will get thousands of printed greetings, e-mails (that are forwarded from your friends) and SMS’, but you can’t make the receiver delighted as you expect.

On the other hand, when you pen a letter you put your feelings in simple and clear words. These letters show how deep attachment you have with a particular person and the receiver can also experience your involvement in writing. The most effective part of written letters is that the reader can imagine you actually sitting on chair, bed or at your favorite secret place and writing the letter with completely sunken in his/her thoughts. That makes the reader overwhelmed by your thoughts, and that reader immediately sends a warm reply to your letter. What else you want as an appreciation for your writing?

Before some years I thought that I couldn’t practice letter writing for communication. Today, I wonder that I had written bundle of letters while graduating. I wrote number of letters in English and Marathi as well. Isn’t it amazing? ;)  It was a high period when I used to play with words in prose and poetry. Many of my friends still don’t believe this fact, and some friends believe that I’m secretive in this matter. Pages after pages were penned, read, memorized and burned and torn up to pieces. It doesn’t matter what you do with the pieces of paper once you succeed in conveying your message to the Destination. The words and sentences in your letter vaporise into the air and become the part of somebody’s memory, and you remember how you enjoyed writing those letters every time you miss that experience.

So remember, whenever you write, write with life..! At least I’ll follow it. 

Waiting for nothing...through 'No' thing !!

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What is my life? Who am I? What makes the life complete?  
Don't worry ! I am not going to discuss these headache-receiving theories...  Today, I started writing  with a thought of uncertainty and uneasiness that has became a part of our life unknowingly. 


I know that the Time is changing, but changing times is not always progressive. We need a certain point where we will be sure for a certain period about relationship, work and success...  Here, I will be a bit emotional and traditional by considering the safety of the Future life. 
Actually, I wanted to put the confused state of my mind that I'm unable to understand for last couple of days.. Some times I find myself with disturbed character. [No. It i not like that what you are thinking.. ;)] You might have experienced someday an unknown thought itching every now and then into your heart. 


Every day, I try to sleep with a new thought, but unfortunately it doesn't work for the complete sleep. I keep changing every angle to get the right posture for the full fledged  sleep. Finally, the sun rises leaving me with open eyes..:( I feel sleepy and dozing for the whole day as I am drunk or don't wanna talk anyone.. The day goes in this trance and sun sets with thinking that what the heck happening to me...?


Now, you will say that you need to visit a doc for treatment. No. I don't need any treatment. This is happened with me many times, but this is the first time I am talking about it. I know that talking about this issue will not immediately solve it. I know that writing this blog will may lead to more questions and doubts... But I still feel that by stating the problem I can figure out any solution... As of now, I cant say whether it is worked or not, but I can feel the change of air that flowing through my mind. :) Really, believe me!


Expressing your state of mind, troubles or confusions is always non-dangerous.. It my not lead any conclusion that will solve the trouble, but you will find the place to place that thought and never let it touch your other thoughts which will lead you to a happier life. Its like Ayurvedic treatment- You may get recovered. If not, you will also not have any side effect.. I guess I am right.

I call my problem "nervous breakdown" or psychological error in my life. Let this bug be fixed by the Time, the Changing Time Developer. 


Will come soon.... :)

A Ray Of Hope

You can Feel.....
               What you have ever experienced.
You can Discover...
                What you  have ever found.
You can Achieve...
                What you have ever Dreamed.
You will reach...
                 Where no one ever Reached.

If only.....you hold...

          A Ray of HOPE..!!

Things have have been changing since the time I realized the existence of time. TIME, a never ending, running, continuous invisible almighty of our Universe. Even the Creator would not have thought about its eternal and unbeatable existence. Its so strong to ignore and succeed in this world that it has perished the great legends, Gods and Histories under its pillow. 

I am not proving the greatness of Time, and I need not.  Its clear and agreed by all the great philosophers, scientists, priests, sadhus and thinkers. The son of Adam is bound to lead his life following the Time. 

Great representatives of the human race from Greece, India and Western world have witnessed the supremacy of the life flow that never stops. I too have experienced this eternal truth of change throughout the years I have spent in consciousness. This consciousness comes when the first time we understand the difference between old and new; a child and a young. The quartz movement always suggest us that this time will never be the same or it won't come again. It is changing without a single slight break.!! Isn't it amazing?

Now, people feel sad for the wrong happenings and bad experiences that occur in their lives. A person knows what the other person in front of him is suffering (disease, depression or death) will come into his life someday. Its clear truth, as everybody accept this. The problem arises when the start feeling surprised by the incidents that happen suddenly, even when they have realized the power of the Almighty, whatever or whoever it may be. Why don't we go with straight and clear attitude to all types of experiences?

Here is a simple way of thinking positively. We consider our life begun by the time we stepped out of the mother's internal world. I suggest, consider your life begins when you first realize your existence to this world. Who are you? What does matter by your existence? What you have got to do with this world, your family and with you as well? Start thinking for a Beginning irrespective to the time what you have spent.

  

Remember, the moving hand of a clock says: "This time will never be the same." 

You just only have to hold a positive attitude towards future. Go ahead with a long ever lasting Smile on your face.  Like this :) :) :)